Wednesday, February 24, 2010

Creating Affirmations

It's our attitude, beliefs and self talk that influences whether we accomplish our goals or not.  In severalcases we unintentionally set ourselves up to fail because before we even make a start we've decided on the result. You're more than likely familiar with that tiny pessimistic voice in your the back of your mind that pops up from time to time. However, as soon as you modify the way you think about something, you are setting yourself up to succeed.

If you want to change your way of thinking, start to be aware of any negativity. The first step to dealing with negative thoughts is to make yourself consciously aware of them.  Then just insert a positive statement right next to a negative one. Then let it go.

You don’t have to totallyremove all unproductive or negative thoughts. It’s an exercise in futility that , will justmake you annoyedand ultimatelymore negativein the long run. All you need to do is get into the habitof thinking positively and, after a while, you'll find that you think more positively automatically.

Using affirmations is another method of changing your self talk. However, many people don’t use them appropriately. The typeof the affirmation that you use is veryimperative. There are some forms of affirmations that are very successful. while others don't work as well and some may even be detrimental. Here are a number of tips to take into account whiledeveloping your affirmations.


Use on;y positive words.
Always frame what you are going to say in a positive way. Instead of saying, “I won’t eat junk food today” say, “I eat healthy and nutritious food that tastes great” Bear in mind that positive words strengthen your thoughts and ideas. On the other hand, negative words will strengthen the belief and idea that you can't be successful.

Affirm in the present tense
If you affirm that you are “going to” achieve your goal in the future, then your mind will work on keeping it there. You don’t want to be perpetually “going to” achieve something. You want to frame it in the now, as if you’ve already achieved it. For example, if you want to lose weight, don’t say “I will lose weight” instead, say something like “I’m at my goal weight”

Make it believable
Add something to establish that you have already completed all or at least a part of your objective. It makes it more believable to the subconscious mind. Therefore it’s more likely to integrate into your current beliefs and less likely to dismiss it. For example, if your goal is to be more confident, say “Each day I grow more confident”.

Monday, February 22, 2010

What Is Hypnosis

Hypnosis is simply entering a trance like state in which a persons mind becomes more aware and focused along with becoming more open to suggestions.  It is nothing like the general misconception where you will act like a duck and be made to quack or to make a noise whenever you hear a “magic” word.  Those are just for entertainment.

In truth, hypnosis can give relief to the patient.  This can be for people suffering from high levels of stress or to help people quit smoking or lose weight.  You do not stare at a swinging pocket watch and automatically lose consciousness.  Professional hypnotism is performed in a very relaxed and controlled environment that moves you into a day-dream like trance, however you are still totally in control of what you do and are aware of everything going on around you.

By entering this day-dream like state allows your mind to be free to form new thoughts and open your subconscious to a new line of thought.  By tapping into your subconscious, you are able to reset your normal patterns of thought.

When your subconscious is open to suggestion, a hypnotist will help implant new behavioral models such as convincing a smoker that smoking is not an option for coping with stress.

A session of hypnosis plants a seed or thought into your brain, this allows positive thoughts to take root in your subconscious mind that can alter your attitudes or belief structure.

Hypnosis is nothing supernatural.  It is like when you become involved with an activity or book and suddenly you realize that an hour or two has passed and didn't really notice what was going on around you.  It is not supernatural, it is simply a form of hypnosis.  Intense levels of focus or concentration lets your mind tune out your surroundings and solely focusing on what you are doing or reading.  Hypnosis is similar to zoning out.

Once in a hypnotic state of mind, you can start creating positive thoughts in your subconscious to allow you to create changes in the way you think or act.

Hypnosis cannot solve all of your problems in an hour, the assistance that it brings to your life happens over several sessions in order to really take root.  Regardless, many people can see large improvements after a single session.

In order for this process to be a success, you must enter it with an open mind.  If you expect a panacea or cure-all, then you will become a cynic very quickly.

Try Self Hypnosis

If you just don't trust professional hypnotherapy, you might just be a do-it-yourselfer.  There's nothing wrong with that, and they even have a term for those who don't trust "The Man" to hypnotize them.  It's called self-hypnosis, and it's often practiced by those who aren't accustomed to trusting others - including therapists.  Indeed, without a great deal of trust in whomever does the hypnotizing, there is absolutely no benefit to it, as the subject cannot relax enough to reach the hypnotic state.  Especially for those untrusting types, using self-hypnosis, one can take control of their own subconscious minds, and begin to improve their lives from the inside out.

Just to make it clear, self-hypnosis really isn't for everyone.  If you’re the type who expects everything to happen very quickly, and/or without much effort, you might as well stop reading this right now and go do something more immediately-gratifying.  Patience is a virtue in general, and an indispensable component of the successful practice of self-hypnosis.

Obviously, those who are too 'squirrelly' to sit still for long periods of time should either learn to calm their bodies and minds, or give up the practice before they've wasted too much time.  If you can't sit still for half an hour, don't try self-hypnosis until you're able to be still consistently.  Some people blame the modern world and its rapid-fire way of doing things, but everyone can theoretically improve at this.  The difficulty is actually settling down to do so.

Self-hypnosis is not unlike meditation.  So if you're into meditation, self-hypnosis should be no great challenge to learn and practice.  By clearing your thoughts and relaxing your body, you open up to easing your mind into a different state of being.  While this could be called the pursuit of enlightenment and wisdom, it really doesn't have to go that deeply, or be so vague and wannabe-mysterious.  The benefits of self-hypnosis can be worth a lot of time devoted to it.

The great thing about self-hypnosis is that it doesn't require all the religious overtones of "Meditation."  You don't have to wear a diaper, either -- but you can, if that's your thing.  You can program your mind to see things differently, and can program yourself for more beneficial habits, ie stopping smoking or living more healthfully.  One other great thing about self-hypnosis is that there are so many resources on its practice, meaning the only block is just getting down and doing the do.

The Power Of The Subconscious Mind

"I just can't."  That statement echoes in the minds and hearts of far too many people.  Often times, these same people are held back by nothing more than that pervasive, completely specious belief that they simply cannot accomplish what they set out to do.  What's odd is that inside us, all of us, there is the potential for unlimited power and strength, just waiting to be set free.  All we have to do is unlock what already lies within us, by releasing these ridiculous self-doubts.

From the day you were born until this moment, your subconscious mind has been with you -- it is the seed and the field of all you have reaped in life.  And it will continue to produce that precious crop that is your experience, for as long as you live.  It is impervious, and it follows your orders to the letter, always.

Your subconscious mind is an unstoppable tank with the unquestioning loyalty and unshakeability to unendingly and fearlessly movw forward in the direction into which it is guided and driven.  Unfortunately, it has no internal guidance system, and lacks any capacity to move on its own.  This is why we have creative imagination.  It holds the blueprint of your every success, but you are the architect of this blueprint.  Indeed, you are the architect and the pen.

It's fascinating how much time most people spend learning to use the latest technical gadget -- usually a lot more than they spend learning to properly use their own mind.  Most people know that the mind has two major parts to it, the conscious and subconscious.  What most people don't know is that the conscious mind is limited to an awareness of only five or six things at any one time.  The subconscious mind, on the other hand, processes over 2 million pieces of information every second, and acts as the autopilot that runs our lives.  Your subconscious mind has been building habits from your experiences and lessons since that first mental switch flicked on when you were still in the womb.

If only changing the life of a fully grown human being were so easy.  Setting goals and using will power sound like a good idea at first... but then they fail.  The conscious mind is not the goal-striving mechanism that the subconscious mind is.  The conscious mind does not store belief systems, patterns and habits, which are what guide your life at all times.  Trying to change a habit is completely pointless, unless the subconscious mind is set to the task of creating positve new images of your intention.

Our subconscious mind is silently working at all times, storing away experiences and all that resides beyond our conscious awareness.  It experiences all, knows all, and stores all.

Hypnosis is rather like opening up the hood of a car, in its unfettered access to the subconscious mind and ability to change the goals to which it strives, and the beliefs to which it's bound.  At the depths where hypnosis goes, there is real change.

Self Hypnosis - So what's it all about?

Mention “hypnosis” in any conversation and ask people what picture comes to their minds almost instantaneously.  I’m pretty sure they would immediately conjure a somewhat stereotypical image of a hypnotist swinging a pocket watch at a willing victim… err patient, telling him or her that he or she is slowly falling asleep.

What happens next depends on which movie you saw that particular scene in. But as sure as I’m writing this, the hypnotic session would end with the hypnotist telling the patient that he will count to three, snap his fingers and the patient will awake from the trance, often remembering nothing of what occurred during the whole experience.

This is what Hollywood hypnotism is, as captured on film. Whether the said movie turns out to be a big hit or a major flop, it has accomplished one thing: It has convinced many people that hypnosis can control your mind. And the one hypnotized becomes a slave of the hypnotist and does everything he is told only to recall nothing of it after.

In real life, you are still completely aware of  what you are doing even when in a hypnotic trance. You will not be made to do anything you would not normally and willingly do.

During hypnotherapy sessions for counseling or therapy, whether it is you doing it on yourself or being done to you by another person, the conscious mind is bypassed to tap directly to the subconscious mind in a trance-like state. But, again, you are still fully aware of your surroundings.

Your subconscious mind processes everything that you see, hear and feel.  Sometimes we don’t always notice things with our conscious mind, but is still being recorded and taken note of by our subconscious only to be played back through weird dreams that don’t seem to make sense.

A positive use of self-hypnosis is when you communicate directly with your subconscious mind to implant thoughts or ideas that will help you achieve a goal or attain a specified effect. In reality, self-hypnosis allows you to override your conscious mind’s preconceived notions about your life and reset it to process only your desired habits. This is because your subconscious mind is far more receptive to suggestions than your conscious mind.

You can say self-hypnotism gives you a better chance at success because it allows you to program your mind to entertain only thoughts, beliefs, attitudes and habits that assure success.